Why Men Pull Away – what you need to know
If you are interested in why men pull away then it is a fair bet that at least one man has disappointed you or even broken your heart. I’m really sorry if that is the case because I know it hurts, sometimes in ways that is hard to put into words. The purpose of this website is to point you in the right direction so that we can minimize the chance that you will have to go through this experience again.
We will start by looking at the ‘negative’ side of the puzzle – the behaviors that you might make that can be why men pull away. Then we will end on a positive note where I will show you how you can learn behaviors that pull men to you. It is really uplifting and empowering stuff and I know you will love it.
So Why Do Men Pull Away?
So if there was one simple reason why men pull away and leave their girlfriends then there would be not much need for articles like this. The facts are there are many reasons just as there are many different men with different issues. But there is some behavior that are sure to make most men not want to be with you. Let’s go over these now.
The thrill is gone and what is left is not supportive. Once the initial sparks have settled down there has to be a relationship that is nurturing and not boring.
Men need their personal space. This means time to themselves, times to do things that are important to them that might not involve you. Women who insist on being with the men all the time will have men running for the hills.
Criticism. This is a big one. Criticize only if you absolutely have to. And never in public, only ever in private. Men who have women making them feel useless will naturally pull away and seek someone else who makes them feel good about themselves.
You need to find a way to get on with his friends. Chances are his friends have been around a lot longer than you and may have helped him pull through some tough times. They are tested and proven and, until you have been together for a while, you are not. If it seems that there cannot be harmony between his friends and you, he will choose the friends and send you away.
Men tend to keep things private. Particularly intimate matters. Girls on the other hands have a tendency to discuss absolutely everything with their friends. If he finds out you have been talking about things he feels are private and personal he will feel betrayed and that will make him want to pull away.
So those a five things to keep in mind about why men pull away. Lets look now at how you can pull him in.
How to Capture a Man’s Heart
Just as there are actions and behaviors that you can do that will drive a man away, there are actions and behaviors that you can do which will almost certainly make a man want to be with you. The curious thing is that those things are not always the polar opposite of what pushes them away. I was going to write a list of some of these ‘magnetic’ behaviors but this page is getting long and I don’t want to bore you. So to give you a break from reading, I have found a video that you can watch which quickly give you three great tips on how to capture a mans heart and make him want to be with you. It’s a great video with superb advice.
I hope you got a lot out of this website and I guarantee you will love that video. Go and check it out now! Happiness is just around the corner so take these tips seriously and put them into action right away and get your man